
ADHD Brains Don't Come in One Size
A Realistic Guide to Understanding Adult ADHD and Finding What Works for You
by Amy Harper
About the book
Ever feel like ADHD advice was written for everyone… except you?
- Have you tried all the “proven” ADHD strategies for adults and still feel like you’re falling behind?
- Does every planner, system, or ADHD workbook promise life-changing results—yet somehow, they never work for you?
- Do you feel like no matter how hard you try, life is just harder with an ADHD brain?
If you answered yes to any of these questions, you’re not alone.
Let’s be real: ADHD isn’t one-size-fits-all. And most advice out there? It’s not built for the way neurodivergent minds actually work. You’ve probably tried every ADHD coping skill and productivity hack, only to watch everything fall apart after a few days. You start motivated, telling yourself this time will be different—but then the system fails, and you’re left frustrated, overwhelmed, and exhausted.
Maybe it’s the way emotions hit you like a freight train before you even realize what’s happening. The way relationships feel strained—not because you don’t care, but because communication always seems to go sideways. Or maybe it’s the frustration of working twice as hard as everyone else, yet still feeling overlooked in professional settings.
Imagine If…
✔ Instead of constantly battling distractions, you found ADHD strategies that actually work with your focus—not against it.
✔ Instead of feeling lost in relationships, you understood how to communicate without guilt or frustration.
✔ Instead of spiraling after a stressful event, you had a toolkit for emotional regulation that actually worked.
✔ Instead of struggling to fit into the workplace, you finally had ADHD-friendly systems that helped you thrive.
Why This Book is Different
🔥 It’s Built for ADHD Brains – No rigid systems. No “just be more disciplined” nonsense. This book is flexible, adaptable, and designed to grow with you.
💡 It’s Honest – No sugar-coating. No magical “fixes.” Just ADHD-specific strategies that actually make life easier—not more overwhelming.
😂 It Gets You – Written by someone who truly understands what it’s like to live with ADHD, this book is practical, relatable, and even a little funny. Because sometimes, you just have to laugh at the chaos.
What This Book Will Do for You
✔ Make productivity work for you – Stop forcing yourself into rigid systems that always fall apart. Learn ADHD-friendly tools that actually stick.
✔ Help you regulate emotions before they take over – Practical strategies for handling frustration, rejection sensitivity, and stress without spiraling.
✔ Improve relationships without burning out – Understand how ADHD impacts communication and connection so you can strengthen relationships without guilt.
✔ Help you navigate the workplace with confidence – Learn how to manage deadlines, focus through distractions, and advocate for yourself without feeling like you’re just trying to “keep up.”
✔ Break the cycle of guilt and frustration – ADHD isn’t about “trying harder”—it’s about working smarter with your brain, not against it.
✔ Guide you toward a life that works for you – No more struggling to fit into systems that weren’t built for ADHD. This book will help you create your own ADHD management plan.
ADHD Brains Don’t Fit in a Box. Your Strategies Shouldn’t Either.
This isn’t about forcing yourself into another rigid ADHD for adults workbook. It’s about finding what works—for you.
If you’re ready to ditch the shame, embrace how your brain works, and build ADHD-friendly systems that actually work, this book is for you.